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atimetohealjournal:

Have you ever wanted to finish a book so you could start reading it again? I just did! Don’t miss this incredible book by Dr. Bev Smallwood- “This Wasn’t Supposed to Happen to Me.” (10 make or break choices when life steals your dreams and rocks your world.)  

Whether your live has been turned upside down, or you know someone whose has- don’t miss it!   I found a terrific price at Amazon.com. 

**Interview with Author, Bev Smallwood, PhD coming soon!!

Thank you, Grief Toolbox for this timeless reminder. 

I can’t tell you how excited I am about my friend Jesse Roberts- and his newest book on the horizon- “KidGrief.” Jesse will be a guest speaker at the Thomas McAfee Grief Seminar Tuesday 9/10 (Greenville, SC- TD Convention Center- all day)  He will share his incredible story of loss, healing and survival, since losing both parents before he turned seventeen. Jesse teaches practical compassionate ways to help a child through grief.  I’m honored to call him friend. 

Lifeline

life∙line/ˈlīfˌlīn/ Support that enables people to survive or to continue doing something (often by providing an essential connection)

The first time I heard the term “lifeline” related to grief was from my dear friend, Patti. Almost five years ago Patti’s life changed forever when a violent crime took the life of her beautiful twenty-six year old daughter, Anne. There are no words to adequately describe her journey through sorrow since Anne’s death; yet somehow Patti continues to find strength to wake up every morning and keep putting one foot in front of the other.

She is often asked how she keeps going. I’ve noticed people lean in to listen whenever Patti speaks now, not wanting to miss a single word. She is quick to talk about her Christian faith. Patti’s quiet confidence and unshakable hope for the future inspire the very people who are there to encourage her.

The next thing she might tell you about are her lifelines. Patti’s lifelines are the trusted friends who were at her side when Anne died. They are people who not only pray for her, but pray with her anytime day or night. These lifelines have been there for birthdays, anniversaries and times she thought about giving up. Around them Patti doesn’t have to clean up the pain or pretend everything is okay. They make her feel safe.

Another invaluable lifeline has been her gifted and compassionate professional counselor. Since connecting with an excellent grief therapist, Patti has been able to keep moving forward on the road of healing, and start looking ahead to the future. Her story of survival is now offering hope and encouragement to other moms and dads grieving the unthinkable loss of a child.

What About You? Do you have a lifeline walking with you, a friend or maybe a group of people who understand what you’re going through? If you’d like help finding support, a local pastor or hospice provider can be an excellent place to start.

You don’t have to go through grief alone.